In 2016 leading up to Thanksgiving you probably read more than your fair share of headlines that are telling you your Thanksgiving dinner will be a nightmare because of Election-pocalypse. You know what. . that is complete nonsense. That is choosing the fear of conflict over the vision of what your thanksgiving table ought to be like. Embrace that vision and put down the fear. And oh by the way the fear is in the headlines because it makes you click, read, and share. Fear is easier than vision. But vision is so much more rewarding.